"Let us hold fast the confession of our hope without wavering, for He who promised is faithful. And let us consider how to stir one another to love and good works, not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near." (Hebrews 10:23-25)

I'm not sure how much this passage has occurred to you during these times, but it was brought to my attention recently that our church may be disobeying this clear command. Was I missing something in understand this passage in light of the current restrictions from assembling surrounding the Coronavirus?

First, we need to look at this original audience. The writer of Hebrews addressed this letter to Messianic Jews scattered throughout the Roman Empire who were battling temptations to return to Judaism. Because of the particular social, political, and religious pressures they faced, these young Christians needed a strong reminder that Jesus was better than everything else. For these Christians, at best facing social prejudice, and at worst physical torture/ death, they desperately needed each other!

We have to understand commands and instructions in the way they were intended to be taken, and not pull them out of context as proof texts. The writer of Hebrews was addressing men and women whose great temptation was to turn their backs on Jesus and return to the yoke of bondage (as Paul called it in Galatians). They needed one another, as Christians today do too. Those believers who patterned their lives by not associating with other Christians, but rather distanced themselves from the body were not just hurting themselves but hurting others and disobeying God.

This brings us to the issue of what we should do today in light of the Coronavirus. Churches have not met for close to 6 weeks now and this command in Hebrews seems to be more and more relevant. But should it be? Are we Christians willingly neglecting to meet together? Are we living our lives as if God and His Church didn't exist? I think for most of us, that is very far from the truth. Still, this time should cause us as Christians to take inventory of our lives before things were put on hold. How faithful were we to our assembly before the Coronavirus? How valuable was Jesus' church to us before we were "forbidden" from attending?  For some of us, our attendance wasn't what it should be.  Of course, if you were totally committed to gathering, then praise be to God! But we can all use this time to reset our priorities and re-center our entire lives around what truly matters: Christ and His church.

The writer of Hebrews added a purpose behind meeting together-- ministry to one another. He wrote that we are to "stir one another to love and good works." Even though we cannot assemble, we can still accomplish some of our duty through the wonder of technology. Are we taking advantage of the venues our church is offering to connect? We should be! This is a time to draw close to one another whenever possible, not pull apart. While it may be the habit of some to neglect assembly with and ministry to the body, may it never be said of us!

Christ's commands are still in effect. We live in unique times, and Romans 13 gives us clear commands about respecting governing authorities. So, while we may need to suspend assembling, we can still move forward in ministry and obey Christ. Love God. Love His Church. Be all in when this time of sickness has passed and even now!

We are a people often laden with anxiety, worry, fear, and depression. At times like these our sins and struggles become more magnified than we ever thought possible. Perhaps as you read this you’ve wrestled with wave upon wave of fear or depression stemming from the world’s circumstances. You may even know people who are wondering where to look for help.
 
One of the most helpful books I’ve read on dealing with these issues is God is More than Enough by BJU’s very own Dr. Jim Berg. In it, Dr. Berg seeks to unmask the underlying causes of anxiety, guilt, anger, and depression. Ultimately, a proper belief in God quiets the noisy soul.
 
If you’ve never read the book, Dr. Berg graciously explains how people come to points of utter despair, anger, or worry. He concludes that “unbelief” is “the mother sin- it gives birth to all the others” (36). At the heart of our struggles is a fantasy world where God isn’t at the center. Dr. Berg then explains how God’s glorious attributes combat unbelief and its effects. He points us to God’s love, mercy, faithfulness, power, and wisdom as stabilizing principles which ease the noise of anxiety, anger, guilt, and depression.
 
Why do I like this book so much? Here are three reasons:

• The magnificence of God is set on clear display. This book portrays the majesty of God as the solution to our real-life problems. It causes us to worship. Dr. Berg presents God in light of all his attributes. For instance, in the opening of the book, God is shown to be one who longs to help us. Berg writes, “Jesus said to them all, ‘Come unto me, all ye that labour.’ The word labour means ‘grow weary, to be beaten out.’ The root word means to take a beating. Most of us identify with that. We have at times felt overwhelmed as if we were in a hurricane with the winds pounding unceasingly against our souls. It is to us in those times that Jesus says, ‘Come to Me; I can help people like that’” (2).
• Real life problems are addressed helpfully. Not only does this book present a grand view of God, it also deals with real people and real problems. The whole book deals with the common struggles of anxiety, anger, guilt, and depression. A helpful Appendix is provided at the end of the book detailing how the book’s principles helped people overcome problems they faced. Dr. Berg demonstrates that the Bible’s solutions to man’s problems are not only theoretical but practical.
• Practical solutions for continued growth are clearly laid out. The book doesn’t just lay out keys for short-term success. In the last chapter, Berg gives practical suggestions to continue growing even after reading the book.

 
So, if you need a resource to help with increasing despair, anxiety, guilt, or anger, take a look at God is More than Enough.

Living back at home with family, particularly during a stay-at-home order, brings out the good, the bad, and the ugly in us and in those around us. I grew up in a wonderful Christian home. Still, as a college student, I remember the frustrated, sick feeling I would get after what seemed like every interaction I had with one of my siblings. No matter how a conversation started, it felt like it always ended in an argument. I began to dread sitting together at meals because of the “inevitable” conflict that would ensue. Bitterness started to creep into my heart like the Kudzu vines in the South, slowly eating away at the good and turning the whole relationship into something tangled and brown.
 
Conflict can look like arguments and yelling. It can look like silent treatment and avoidance. It can, sadly, even look like physical abuse or cruelty. Certainly, if your situation is unsafe in any way because of other’s sin against you, please reach out immediately for help from civil authorities, a godly pastor, and a biblical counselor. Maybe you are trying to navigate life in a house filled with verbal time bombs, or maybe you are ashamed of the harsh words and fierce anger of your own heart towards someone you love. Whether you live in a home where Christ is honored or where you are the only Christian, we all need help and hope from God regarding how to handle conflict. There is much that the Scripture gives to guide us, but today we will focus on three foundational principles.
 
1. Acknowledge the Real Source of Conflict

James 4:1 says, “What causes quarrels and what causes fights among you? Is it not this, that your passions are at war within you?”
 
The Bible teaches us that conflict comes from the passions of our own hearts. Other people can live selfishly or speak unkindly, and God will hold them accountable for their behavior, but we are responsible from what comes out of us in response. We sin because we are self-centered and want our own way. Jesus said that it is what comes out of one’s heart that defiles a person (Mk. 7:15). Conflict usually arises because I am not getting to rule my “kingdom” the way I want to. I want things to go my way! I must acknowledge my sin in a conflict and be willing to humbly confess it as sin and turn to God in repentance. I must repent of my ruling passions, the heart desires that fuel the conflict in my life.
 
2. Remember Your Christ and Your New Identity
 
By faith I look to Christ. I remember His work on the cross and His full forgiveness for every sin. I rehearse how I am now “in Christ”, a phrase used over seventy-five times in the Bible!  To be “in Him” means I have received every spiritual blessing (Eph. 1:3). I am forgiven. I am loved. I am empowered. I am accepted. I am set apart for God. I am no longer a slave to sin (Rom. 6:4). I now live for my created purpose—to worship God and enjoy Him forever (1 Cor. 10:31). I am living, not for my kingdom, but for God’s kingdom (Matt. 6:33).
 
3. Overcome Evil with Good
 
The passage God used most to change my heart in relationship to my family member was Romans 12:16-21.
 
“Live in harmony with one another. Do not be haughty, but associate with the lowly. Never be wise in your own sight. Repay no one evil for evil, but give thought to do what is honorable in the sight of all. If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all…Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.”
 
Romans 12 comes after powerful passages earlier in the book that talk about salvation, justification (being declared righteous before God), and sanctification (growing in looking more like God). Because of what God has done, I am able to live free from sin and alive to God. I kill my old responses and in the power of the Spirit I live out new ones. That looks like living in harmony. It looks like, as much as is possible, living peaceably. And it looks like overcoming evil with good.
 
Overcoming evil with good. How difficult that is! How absolutely contrary to my nature! How undeserved by the other person in the conflict! But God displayed the ultimate example of this when He gave His Son, Jesus Christ, to die on a cross for your sin and my sin. My evil was overcome by His good.
 
Try and picture Jesus, the rabbi who healed the lepers and who loved the children, gasping for breath as His tortured body hung suspended by nails. Greater still was His anguish of spirit as God the Father poured out His wrath for the sins of the world upon His beloved Son. Yet as Jesus hung there, He cried out, “Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do.” God offered forgiveness while we were still sinners. All the evil in the world cannot overcome the good that God brought from the death, burial, and resurrection of Jesus! Though we may not see what good will result from our humility and forgiveness in relationship to others, we can be confident that God’s purposes are good and trustworthy.
 
So how do we overcome evil with good? If we are called to love our enemies, we are most certainly called to love our family. What good can you do for those in your family today?

• Begin with your heart. Bring it to Jesus for cleansing and grace.
• List 3 practical ways you can serve that person this week.
• Pray daily for that person (not the imprecatory prayers ;))
• List 10 things you appreciate about that person.  
• Determine only to speak well of that person, unless you are getting help from someone about how to handle something.
• “A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger” (Prov. 15:1). Don’t lash out even when the other person “starts it.”
• When in a disagreement, attack the problem and not the person.

  
Because we are deeply loved children of God, let’s imitate Christ when conflict arises. “Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God” (Matt. 5:9).

Good Reads on Leadership
 
We find ourselves in a very unusual time. Our lives have been disrupted and we face daily uncertainties. At times like these we realize afresh the importance of leadership and perhaps we have a bit of extra time to read good books! J. Oswald Sanders said that “discipline in early life, which is prepared to make sacrifices in order to gain adequate preparation for the life-task, paves the way for high achievement.” I encourage you to utilize the time to expand your knowledge base about leadership. Here are four books that deal with leading yourself and leading others that I found compelling and helpful. 

• The Conviction to Lead. Al Molher writes with a soft heart and a steel backbone. He has ridden the turbulent seas of controversy; and he not only lived to write about it but took the helm of the ship during the turbulence and steered her though the storm to calm(er) waters. This is a great book for leaders (and really anyone who desires to make a difference in the world).
• What’s Best Next. Matt Perman loves getting things done for God’s glory and encouraging others to do the same. I absolutely love how he defines and describes working for God’s glory and the advancement of His kingdom. “Gospel-driven productivity” reflects our Creator and satisfies our souls.
• Essentialism. Greg McKeown describes the “discipled pursuit of less.” By saying no to the trivial many things in life in order to say yes to the essential few, one can maximize his or her influence to make lasting differences and increase all-around productivity.
• Eat. Move. Sleep. Tom Wrath shares many simple things he has learned during his life-long battle with cancer. The small choices he makes everyday have lengthened the quantity and enriched the quality of his years. Little things over and over make huge differences.

 
"Leadership matters. Your leadership matters. A good leader changes the course of organizations, entire industries, states, countries, and even the global landscape.” -Burnett

We read a very insightful prayer in Psalm 90:12. Moses writes, “So teach us to number our days so that we may get a heart of wisdom.” The Lord calls each of us to wisely and carefully use the time he allots.
 
If you’re a normal human being, I think you can spot the problem. How do we use the time God has allowed when we’ve done every possible thing we can think of? By this time in your Coronavirus isolation, you’ve probably played monopoly more times than you’d like to admit, scrolled endlessly through social media sites countless times per day, and have had more family time this week than you had all of February combined.
 
What should you do with all this time? Before giving some suggestions, let me point you to a resource which I’ve found immensely helpful for organizing my time. The book is entitled Do More Better by Tim Challies. On his website, you’ll find a section of free “Bonus Material” which provides helpful worksheets for godly productivity. You’ll find some of his thinking in my suggestions below:
 
So, what should you do with all your free time? Here are four practical suggestions:
 

1. Focus on your known responsibilities. List known responsibilities and diligently focus on those. Your list may include homework, house chores, work obligations, or church functions. Before saying you’re bored, focus on the known tasks.
2. Work on a “dream” list. A “dream” list will consist of projects or goals you’ve wanted to accomplish for a while. God has seen fit to give us a period of free time. Why not use it to accomplish goals you’ve always wanted to achieve? For instance, you may have always wanted to learn a new skill (juggling anyone?). You may have a desire to learn a new language or read about a new concept. Perhaps there are health goals you’ve wanted to reach? Before saying you’re bored, engage that “dream list.” You may never have time to fulfill it again.
3. Reach others. Although this period of time may be challenging, we are still obligated to fulfill the Great Commission. At a basic level, are you building and fostering redeeming relationships with your family? At the same time, why not use your social media accounts to reach others who are separated from you by distance. Your church, your friends, and your family need you reaching into their lives at this time. Before saying you’re bored, seek to reach others.
4. Spend time with your God. Above all else, use this free time to deepen your relationship with God. In all reality, you may never have this much free time again for the rest of your life. We won’t regret the hours we spend in prayer, but we may well regret the hours we spend scrolling aimlessly through technology. Before saying you’re bored, diligently pursue your God.

 
On rare occasions in life, God opens up massive amounts of free time for us to use for his glory. Number your days by planning to use the time for his glory!